Money decisions dictate many aspects of our lives, from what you will eat to what your do for recreation fun. Money plays a role in all of these decisions — even mundane ones. In marriage we must recognize this and make decisions accordingly. Communication is key. Understanding each others spending ideology and concepts helps couples see each other perspective and compromise. This will limit potential fights and stress in the relationship.
Financial infidelity is when one person in the covenantal relationship is making financial decisions behind their spouses back. This includes spending more money than previously agreed on, buying things outside of agreements, treating ourselves continuously , and anything else that we do behind our love’s back.
This can be very damaging emotionally — let alone financially — to a marriage. Financial transparency is key to avoiding these pit-falls.
Sources: Focus on the Family With Jim Daly: Building a Secure Financial Future With Your Spouse (friday October 7, 2011)
http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/focus-on-the-family/
